Derek Rake Insider

"I have some frustrations and questions that I hope you can shed light on. I am 33 years old and quite inexperienced with the ladies, though I have dated a couple of girls. The thing is: I went back to college to finish my college degree and, being more mature, I get more attention than I did in the … [Read More...]

"Derek, what do you think of online dating websites such as eHarmony.com?" - Marcos K. from Palmerton, PA Derek Rake's Answer:- ersonally, I love them. I actually meet the majority of my women (around 90% of them) offline, but dating websites are still great - eHarmony.com and plentyoffish.com, … [Read More...]

"I have come to notice that, when in the game and trying to work out what really works and what doesn't, I seek for reactions a lot. I mean, the only way I can find out what works is through people's reactions, after all. So, how can I get better without being reactive-seeking and at the same time … [Read More...]

"I have been reading issues of The Rake Letter and find your ideas simply amazing!! It sounds like you have a lot of stories, tactics and tips on how to approach women and get them interested and such. Well, I'm quite unlucky when it comes to women and have been for quite some time. I don't even … [Read More...]

"I want to get it on with several women that are much older than me (this one women, in particular). It's not that I fancy her a lot or anything. I just love the idea of easy lays and think she may enjoy it (she's 17 years older and divorced). I have a problem, though. How can I bring this idea to … [Read More...]