Derek Rake Insider

"I'm extremely flirty with women, but I have a problem: even though I flirt, I still don't make it anywhere with them. I have no idea what I should say to random pretty girls on the street. Can you provide me with some great openers?" - Terry P. from Jacksonville, NC Derek Rake's Answer:- f you … [Read More...]

"Hey, my relationship has some new developments that require me to ask something. Basically, I learned that my girl has had a bad sexual past and she said that I was being too pushy and demanding by trying to escalate things. I don't know why she waited to tell me about this. (Btw, she's a virgin.) … [Read More...]

"I met this girl online recently (I basically created an online account because I wanted to meet more women). We have been talking online for a week or so now, but I don't know how to game her. What should I do or say to set up an actual date?" - Mike W. from Vancouver, BC Derek Rake's … [Read More...]

"Derek, my problem is that I always feel like I need female acceptance before getting comfortable around a girl. This means putting my heart out there, telling her how much I like her, opening up about my past and my absolute lack of experience with women. Of course, this paves the way to a good … [Read More...]

"I have no trouble talking to girls, but I'm simply not sexual enough most of the time, so they end up seeing me as nothing more than just a friend. I have tried using sexual innuendo, but to no avail. Also, do you have any tips on conveying dominant body language in a party or club environment? … [Read More...]