Derek Rake Insider

"Hey, my relationship has some new developments that require me to ask something. Basically, I learned that my girl has had a bad sexual past and she said that I was being too pushy and demanding by trying to escalate things. I don't know why she waited to tell me about this. (Btw, she's a virgin.) … [Read More...]

"I read SeductionOnSteroids right after my difficult divorce, which lasted for two years and drained out my self-confidence. It must be clear that my ex-wife was the one who cast me aside and told me to leave. This is why I feel for your experience since this woman was somebody I married and had … [Read More...]

"I went to a bar the other night and met a girl. I saw her from the moment she came in, but she had another guy with her. She randomly approached my table where I was sitting with some colleagues and went 'Wow, this is awkward.' I asked what she meant and she told me that she came with a friend … [Read More...]

"I know this girl and I like her a lot. She reciprocates my feelings. She told me herself. We began talking around two weeks ago, then on Saturday, she began talking to someone else out of the blue. I get jealous quite easily, but keep it to myself - is this a smart move? Also, what should I do if … [Read More...]

"After a marriage of 42 years, my wife sleeps in another bedroom. It has been a year since then and we haven't had sex throughout that time. What can I do? I'm incredibly horny!" - John G. from Gaithersburg, MD Derek Rake's Answer:- think I'd go nuts after 42 years in a marriage. I have dated … [Read More...]