Derek Rake Insider

"Basically, I want to learn how to move from being the nice guy to being the dateable guy. I think it might be a bit too late to get this girl - heck, I'm not even sure if she's worth it - but I want to know how I can ensure a relationship next time instead of constantly hoping things will work out. … [Read More...]

"First of all, I have full custody of my two daughters, so I attend to them all the time. Plus, because of the crap economy today, I still live with my parents. Because of these two factors, I have had a mental block. So, whenever I talk to a girl I want to have sex with and I realize I can't bring … [Read More...]

"Hi Derek, first of all, I want to thank you for this chance to share what's in my heart and mind. My question is: how can I win my ex-girlfriend back? I was dumped two weeks ago and we had only been together for two months." - Nicholas O. from Ocala, FL Derek Rake's Answer:- ne that brings all … [Read More...]

"Hey, my relationship has some new developments that require me to ask something. Basically, I learned that my girl has had a bad sexual past and she said that I was being too pushy and demanding by trying to escalate things. I don't know why she waited to tell me about this. (Btw, she's a virgin.) … [Read More...]

"I have an objective - to have sex with at least three girls every week. Unfortunately, girls in Mexico - where I live - aren't very open-minded, so how can I make things easier for me?" - Scott B. from Beaumont, TX Derek Rake's Answer:- ow. You pretty much summed up every man's dream in a … [Read More...]