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"So, how come she didn't give me her phone number? I'm guessing she has a boyfriend or didn't want to give it to me because she was at work. I've had that happen to me before when I tried to pick up a girl who was catering. She said I should catch her after work. I couldn't really stay for that … [Read More...]

"Recently, I got into a relationship with someone at my college and everything is great. She is my best friend now and we're escalating a lot faster than I thought possible (we're both virgins, by the way). Everything is actually so great that I'm afraid our relationship will start to get boring or … [Read More...]

"How can I get a girl to respond to my emails? When we talk over the phone, she pretends like nothing happens." - Gordon J. from Glendale, CA Derek Rake's Answer:- f you're already talking over the phone, why are you worrying about the emails? Women tend to like different things. While some … [Read More...]

"I have approached women older than me before and they have said several things to me like 'You're young enough to be my son'; 'I have a little brother your age'; or 'You're, like, 12'. I have heard that you have a trainer my age, so I was hoping you could offer up some advice on the subject. I know … [Read More...]

"I'm extremely flirty with women, but I have a problem: even though I flirt, I still don't make it anywhere with them. I have no idea what I should say to random pretty girls on the street. Can you provide me with some great openers?" - Terry P. from Jacksonville, NC Derek Rake's Answer:- f you … [Read More...]