Derek Rake Insider

"I'm a 44-year-old man (turning 45 in a few weeks) and the woman I love is only 31. When we met a few years ago, we hit it off instantly. Everything seems to be perfect with the two of us - aside from out big age difference, that is. She can't seem to accept this. Now, I don't want to sound cocky, … [Read More...]

"I have no intentions of picking up men. I am just hoping my subject title stands out so you can give me some advice for my situation. My question is: I have a problem with being confident and dominant when it comes to work, so can you help me make a change here?" - Brendan J. from Sperry, … [Read More...]

"I read SeductionOnSteroids right after my difficult divorce, which lasted for two years and drained out my self-confidence. It must be clear that my ex-wife was the one who cast me aside and told me to leave. This is why I feel for your experience since this woman was somebody I married and had … [Read More...]

"If a woman doesn't find me attractive, will she still sleep with me?" - Jayden G. from Seattle, WA Derek Rake's Answer:- up. It's known as the game of objection. But there is no way I'm allowed to speak about it in this short answer. It's something we could get into trouble for by talking about … [Read More...]

"My question has to do with this girl that I proposed to several months ago. She said she was dating somebody else that time, though. She's the kind of girl who loves to give excuses each time I ask her out. However, there's this one thing that I love about her: she tries to call me over the phone … [Read More...]