Derek Rake Insider

"I went to a bar the other night and met a girl. I saw her from the moment she came in, but she had another guy with her. She randomly approached my table where I was sitting with some colleagues and went 'Wow, this is awkward.' I asked what she meant and she told me that she came with a friend … [Read More...]

"I'm a Biology major graduate student. I work almost every day and a lot of the time, I spend at least 14 hours at the lab. I recently moved 1000 miles away from school and I don't know anybody in my zip code - which has never happened before. I have never not been surrounded by a very close-knit … [Read More...]

"Hi Derek, first of all, I want to thank you for this chance to share what's in my heart and mind. My question is: how can I win my ex-girlfriend back? I was dumped two weeks ago and we had only been together for two months." - Nicholas O. from Ocala, FL Derek Rake's Answer:- ne that brings all … [Read More...]

"I have an objective - to have sex with at least three girls every week. Unfortunately, girls in Mexico - where I live - aren't very open-minded, so how can I make things easier for me?" - Scott B. from Beaumont, TX Derek Rake's Answer:- ow. You pretty much summed up every man's dream in a … [Read More...]

"Hi Derek. I haven't checked my email for several weeks and I have a question for you. As of late, I have transcended my personal approach anxiety. I'm 31, after all, so I figured it was time to. However, I now have a huge problem: how can I transcend my shark vibe or neediness? I have come to … [Read More...]