Derek Rake Insider

"I met this girl online recently (I basically created an online account because I wanted to meet more women). We have been talking online for a week or so now, but I don't know how to game her. What should I do or say to set up an actual date?" - Mike W. from Vancouver, BC Derek Rake's … [Read More...]

"My question has to do with this girl that I proposed to several months ago. She said she was dating somebody else that time, though. She's the kind of girl who loves to give excuses each time I ask her out. However, there's this one thing that I love about her: she tries to call me over the phone … [Read More...]

"I have come to notice that, when in the game and trying to work out what really works and what doesn't, I seek for reactions a lot. I mean, the only way I can find out what works is through people's reactions, after all. So, how can I get better without being reactive-seeking and at the same time … [Read More...]

"I still face problems when it comes to women. I sometimes meet one with whom I connect with really well and then, the next time we meet, the connection is suddenly gone. Why are my results so inconsistent?" - Jesse G. from Chicago, IL Derek Rake's Answer:- here are two reasons why you are more … [Read More...]

"I'm absolutely horrible at telling people how I feel, be it about love or anger or whatever. I'm also scared of escalating things. A lot of gurus say that one solution to this would be to read more about sex. Well, I have and it hasn't helped. Another thing: how can I sleep with someone? Do I just … [Read More...]