Derek Rake Insider

"How can I keep things going when in a relationship? How can I make sure we stay great after two weeks? (Also, am I trying to be too perfect here?) With so many obstacles, insecurities, test failure, and some bad luck, things seem to have changed with us." - Sean B. from North Kingstown, RI Derek … [Read More...]

"Hey Derek, I want to share my extreme frustration here. I don't know which advice to trust and which not to anymore. A lot of the things you say makes so much sense to me, but I sometimes feel like you're just another online marketer trying to sell his product. From what I have read from you so … [Read More...]

"I received your issue of Rake Letter where you asked us for questions. Well, I have one. I have read about the mistakes of body language while sitting, like crossing the arms or legs, leaning back with our head in our hands, etc. However, I have never read about desirable postures to take depending … [Read More...]

"Hi, a quick summary of what I'm dealing with: This girl was coming to my workplace for more than a year and throwing me crazy hints. I thought it was her way of being nice since she was hot, then I eventually asked her on a date and we hit things off. But when she started having two jobs, we … [Read More...]

"I find myself getting tired of games and even women. Now, don't take this the wrong way: I have no interest in switching teams. I think it just has something to do with the women that I meet, really. But what else can I do if I've lost interest in the games and if I only want to have sex with … [Read More...]