Derek Rake Insider

"Hi Derek, here are my goals, questions and frustrations: my voice is kind of soft and quiet, so whenever I go to clubs, I have a hard time approaching women." - Pedro P. from Antelope Ridge, NM Derek Rake's Answer:- y friend Ricky went through the same thing. Although his voice isn't exactly … [Read More...]

"A lot of the time, I see attractive women with members of their family, such as their mother. I want to go up to them, but how can I approach this particular situation? And how do I deal if I get rejected in a bad way? Cheers and great stuff!" - William H. from Hardisty, AB Derek Rake's … [Read More...]

"I need some help since I seem to be far too analytical sometimes… I honestly have no idea if it's because I don't want something to let go or because I want to reach the root of the problem, tear it open and find a solution to fix it every single time - most of all when I talk to my girlfriend. And … [Read More...]

"I see her at the bar, but I meet up with some people first before going up to her. Then a guy shows up and hugs her from the back and she introduces him to me as a 'great friend'. She gives him a drink and they kiss in front of me. This goes on all night. It ended up totally screwing with my … [Read More...]

"Hey, my relationship has some new developments that require me to ask something. Basically, I learned that my girl has had a bad sexual past and she said that I was being too pushy and demanding by trying to escalate things. I don't know why she waited to tell me about this. (Btw, she's a virgin.) … [Read More...]