Derek Rake Insider

"A lot of the time, I see attractive women with members of their family, such as their mother. I want to go up to them, but how can I approach this particular situation? And how do I deal if I get rejected in a bad way? Cheers and great stuff!" - William H. from Hardisty, AB Derek Rake's … [Read More...]

"I see her at the bar, but I meet up with some people first before going up to her. Then a guy shows up and hugs her from the back and she introduces him to me as a 'great friend'. She gives him a drink and they kiss in front of me. This goes on all night. It ended up totally screwing with my … [Read More...]

"The thought of becoming a pickup artist really hasn't vibed with me, no matter what style it is - extravagant or natural. Still, I want choices when it comes to women. In fact, I hope to have great girlfriends that will make other guys cry. :) Is this possible without actually becoming a pickup … [Read More...]

"My question is one that I believe several guys will relate to. Simply put, what advice can you give to a guy who wants to start fresh? I have personally had some success in my younger high school and college days. I had several girlfriends and occasional friends with benefits, but always knew it … [Read More...]

"Hi Derek, I have some questions for you. Are sexual presence and sexual tension the same thing? If so, should I only put sexual tension to use when I am alone with a girl or can I use it several minutes after actually meeting her, as well?" - Thomas G. from Six Mile, SC Derek Rake's … [Read More...]