Derek Rake Insider

"I met this girl online recently (I basically created an online account because I wanted to meet more women). We have been talking online for a week or so now, but I don't know how to game her. What should I do or say to set up an actual date?" - Mike W. from Vancouver, BC Derek Rake's … [Read More...]

"I've been dating a girl for more than a month and we've gone on several casual dates and to several parties downtown… We get along very well and laugh a lot together. I quite like her, but I somehow feel that there are several obstacles in the way of us getting physical. Around three weeks ago, I … [Read More...]

"Hi, got any advice on asking a girl on a date? I get scared whenever I'm close to asking one out, then another guy ends up beating me to it and I get left all alone." - Harris C. from Newport, TN  Derek Rake's Answer:- hat situation is hard. The only reason other guys can beat you is if your … [Read More...]

"The thought of becoming a pickup artist really hasn't vibed with me, no matter what style it is - extravagant or natural. Still, I want choices when it comes to women. In fact, I hope to have great girlfriends that will make other guys cry. :) Is this possible without actually becoming a pickup … [Read More...]

"I'm taken right now but don't see myself as being great with women. My relationship right now is good but if we break up, I think I'd have problems meeting other women. Here's my story. I'm 24 and socially awkward with other people - always have been. I haven't been social - ever. It's a natural … [Read More...]