Derek Rake Insider

"I find it hard to start up conversations with girls in quiet places - whenever there's a cute girl at a quiet library, for example - and even when we're at the pool and everybody's around to listen. What's the rap when it comes to such situations? And when you're at the grocery, still getting yours … [Read More...]

"For 3 years or so, I have been working on my personal game with your help. I can say that the tease tactics work very well and I am almost an expert at them. However, I have noticed that the responses to them tend to vary. Several women instantly hit the wavelength of what I'm doing and we almost … [Read More...]

"If a woman doesn't find me attractive, will she still sleep with me?" - Jayden G. from Seattle, WA Derek Rake's Answer:- up. It's known as the game of objection. But there is no way I'm allowed to speak about it in this short answer. It's something we could get into trouble for by talking about … [Read More...]

"I truly appreciate your tips on dating – The Rake Letter is truly excellent reading. The tips really help in putting the girls at ease. Fortunately, I am lucky enough to know how to talk to strangers, most of all women, and how to get their numbers. My problem is that I have a friend - one who I … [Read More...]

"I just want some advice on some things. I met this great lady whom I have a strictly sexual relationship with - friends with benefits, if you will. However, being friends is the worst wrench through it all. She is hot but has huge problems because of how past lovers have treated her - one of … [Read More...]