Derek Rake Insider

"I'm quite good with openers, but sometimes, that's as far as I get. I hardly ask for phone numbers since I feel like the chance to do so never really comes out. Whenever I'm out, I'm either very cocky or very nice. None of these mindsets work. If I'm nice, girls ignore me, but if I'm cocky, they … [Read More...]

"I have come to notice that, when in the game and trying to work out what really works and what doesn't, I seek for reactions a lot. I mean, the only way I can find out what works is through people's reactions, after all. So, how can I get better without being reactive-seeking and at the same time … [Read More...]

"I've been playing the nice guy card all year and would like you to elaborate some things for me, as a kind of Christmas gift. What are your thoughts on attainability? I know this is old and you probably don't teach it anymore, but I don't have any other products, so it's what I use. However, I … [Read More...]

"A lot of the time, I see attractive women with members of their family, such as their mother. I want to go up to them, but how can I approach this particular situation? And how do I deal if I get rejected in a bad way? Cheers and great stuff!" - William H. from Hardisty, AB Derek Rake's … [Read More...]

"I want to get it on with several women that are much older than me (this one women, in particular). It's not that I fancy her a lot or anything. I just love the idea of easy lays and think she may enjoy it (she's 17 years older and divorced). I have a problem, though. How can I bring this idea to … [Read More...]