Derek Rake Insider

"Derek, before anything else, I want to say that I have average looks and can get quite a few women. However, the problem is that most of those women are online, which leads to my second problem. I know there's no trouble in getting regular girls of 6s and 7s, but I have trouble getting girls that … [Read More...]

"Derek, my problem is that I always feel like I need female acceptance before getting comfortable around a girl. This means putting my heart out there, telling her how much I like her, opening up about my past and my absolute lack of experience with women. Of course, this paves the way to a good … [Read More...]

"I read your last issue of The Rake Letter and have to say that I was thinking about frustration, too, mainly because you offer up so much information that my mind is swamped and I lose track and get left behind. I really love your stuff, but I try to eat everything up the minute I get the … [Read More...]

"1. Is it possible to practice drills alone without anybody else? 2. How can I turn the things that I have learned into something more permanent inside of me?" - Walter L. from Newport, AR Derek Rake's Answer:- he answer to that is simple yet profound: Practice And Practice Some More. I'm not … [Read More...]

"I have come to notice that, when in the game and trying to work out what really works and what doesn't, I seek for reactions a lot. I mean, the only way I can find out what works is through people's reactions, after all. So, how can I get better without being reactive-seeking and at the same time … [Read More...]