Derek Rake Insider

"I don't know why but something doesn't feel right whenever I try to hold a girl's hand. I feel like I'll get rejected - that she'll drop my hand if I make my move or some shit." - Bert P. from Whitestone, NY Derek Rake's Answer:- ooks like we have the same history. You know how my techniques … [Read More...]

"I find myself getting tired of games and even women. Now, don't take this the wrong way: I have no interest in switching teams. I think it just has something to do with the women that I meet, really. But what else can I do if I've lost interest in the games and if I only want to have sex with … [Read More...]

"How do you deal with the situation when the friends or brothers or mother of the girl you like is around? It's easy to do this in a club because there are a lot of people there, but what if the girl is walking down the street with her friends or mother, what then?" - Nathaniel S. from Milton, … [Read More...]

"Do you have any advice for someone who only wants to get into a relationship for the long term? I have no intentions of meeting a woman to sleep with her within a week or a month. I seriously just want a serious relationship where sex doesn't come up until we know one another very well." - Douglas … [Read More...]

"I know this girl quite well and we are always together - in a group, anyway - at least twice a week. As cliche as this sounds, I like her a lot and want to find out if she likes me, too. The thing is: I have no idea how to find out if she does. I asked her if she was free for a coffee once and her … [Read More...]