Derek Rake Insider

"Hi Derek, here are my goals, questions and frustrations: my voice is kind of soft and quiet, so whenever I go to clubs, I have a hard time approaching women." - Pedro P. from Antelope Ridge, NM Derek Rake's Answer:- y friend Ricky went through the same thing. Although his voice isn't exactly … [Read More...]

"I find myself getting tired of games and even women. Now, don't take this the wrong way: I have no interest in switching teams. I think it just has something to do with the women that I meet, really. But what else can I do if I've lost interest in the games and if I only want to have sex with … [Read More...]

"I want to mention my main objective with women: closing. I live with my mom right now (I am 21) and I date girls who also live with their mom or dad - or both - so it's difficult to find places to close. I want to fix this problem, but I can only think of hotels - and those aren't plausible … [Read More...]

"I like this friend of a friend who's a model, but I don't have a car, a job or money; I live in a dinky apartment; and I'm not even studying just yet (though hopefully will be in the following semester). This is why I have trouble talking to her a lot of the time. I kind of feel like she should be … [Read More...]

"I've met a few great women that I want to consider who aren't exactly 10s, but 8s and 9s. I'm not the greatest looking guy out there, but I'm not too shabby, either. There's this one girl I particularly like. I feel connected to her on various levels. What would be a great way to mention I want to … [Read More...]