Derek Rake Insider

"I'm starting to bag attractive girls nowadays with the help of sexual tension - the majority of which are girls that I have known before - and the exact same thing always happens. 1. I show sexual tension along with a loving vibe and open eyes. 2. I get approached and touched. 3. I return the … [Read More...]

"Hi, I have a serious problem getting over a girl. I want her back, but don't know how to go about it. What tips do you have to get an ex to go out with you again? Or is it hopeless? Should I move on and never look back? Honestly, I like this girl a lot and we only broke up because we hardly talk … [Read More...]

"I see her at the bar, but I meet up with some people first before going up to her. Then a guy shows up and hugs her from the back and she introduces him to me as a 'great friend'. She gives him a drink and they kiss in front of me. This goes on all night. It ended up totally screwing with my … [Read More...]

"I truly appreciate your tips on dating – The Rake Letter is truly excellent reading. The tips really help in putting the girls at ease. Fortunately, I am lucky enough to know how to talk to strangers, most of all women, and how to get their numbers. My problem is that I have a friend - one who I … [Read More...]

"I have some more questions here and I would be very appreciative if you could answer teem for me. I have attempted to keep a more dominant focus, like you suggested, but this battle has been going strictly uphill. It works for a bit, but once I trigger something, such as a bad look, or a hesitance … [Read More...]