Derek Rake Insider

"Derek, what do you think of online dating websites such as eHarmony.com?" - Marcos K. from Palmerton, PA Derek Rake's Answer:- ersonally, I love them. I actually meet the majority of my women (around 90% of them) offline, but dating websites are still great - eHarmony.com and plentyoffish.com, … [Read More...]

"I love your stuff and always read everything that you send, so thank you for that. Because of work and family problems, though, I haven't been on a date or had a relationship in years (that's no exaggeration!). Now that things have sort of let up a bit, I want to get back to the game somehow. Back … [Read More...]

"I'm absolutely horrible at telling people how I feel, be it about love or anger or whatever. I'm also scared of escalating things. A lot of gurus say that one solution to this would be to read more about sex. Well, I have and it hasn't helped. Another thing: how can I sleep with someone? Do I just … [Read More...]

"Hey, my relationship has some new developments that require me to ask something. Basically, I learned that my girl has had a bad sexual past and she said that I was being too pushy and demanding by trying to escalate things. I don't know why she waited to tell me about this. (Btw, she's a virgin.) … [Read More...]

"I have no intentions of picking up men. I am just hoping my subject title stands out so you can give me some advice for my situation. My question is: I have a problem with being confident and dominant when it comes to work, so can you help me make a change here?" - Brendan J. from Sperry, … [Read More...]