Derek Rake Insider

"So, how come she didn't give me her phone number? I'm guessing she has a boyfriend or didn't want to give it to me because she was at work. I've had that happen to me before when I tried to pick up a girl who was catering. She said I should catch her after work. I couldn't really stay for that … [Read More...]

"I received your issue of Rake Letter where you asked us for questions. Well, I have one. I have read about the mistakes of body language while sitting, like crossing the arms or legs, leaning back with our head in our hands, etc. However, I have never read about desirable postures to take depending … [Read More...]

"I have no intentions of picking up men. I am just hoping my subject title stands out so you can give me some advice for my situation. My question is: I have a problem with being confident and dominant when it comes to work, so can you help me make a change here?" - Brendan J. from Sperry, … [Read More...]

"I'm a 44-year-old man (turning 45 in a few weeks) and the woman I love is only 31. When we met a few years ago, we hit it off instantly. Everything seems to be perfect with the two of us - aside from out big age difference, that is. She can't seem to accept this. Now, I don't want to sound cocky, … [Read More...]

"I truly appreciate your tips on dating – The Rake Letter is truly excellent reading. The tips really help in putting the girls at ease. Fortunately, I am lucky enough to know how to talk to strangers, most of all women, and how to get their numbers. My problem is that I have a friend - one who I … [Read More...]