Derek Rake Insider

"I find it hard to start up conversations with girls in quiet places - whenever there's a cute girl at a quiet library, for example - and even when we're at the pool and everybody's around to listen. What's the rap when it comes to such situations? And when you're at the grocery, still getting yours … [Read More...]

"Hi Derek, first of all, I want to thank you for this chance to share what's in my heart and mind. My question is: how can I win my ex-girlfriend back? I was dumped two weeks ago and we had only been together for two months." - Nicholas O. from Ocala, FL Derek Rake's Answer:- ne that brings all … [Read More...]

"Recently, I got into a relationship with someone at my college and everything is great. She is my best friend now and we're escalating a lot faster than I thought possible (we're both virgins, by the way). Everything is actually so great that I'm afraid our relationship will start to get boring or … [Read More...]

"I have already read the Dark Rake Method; that was some great stuff. I definitely internalized a lot of the thoughts in there. Anyway, I have some scholarly questions, so to speak. Simply put, I am 20 years old, go to college and I want my 23-year-old professor." - Joey A. from Bowbells, … [Read More...]

"I know this girl and I like her a lot. She reciprocates my feelings. She told me herself. We began talking around two weeks ago, then on Saturday, she began talking to someone else out of the blue. I get jealous quite easily, but keep it to myself - is this a smart move? Also, what should I do if … [Read More...]