Derek Rake Insider

"Hey Derek, I want to know how I can stay motivated in picking up women every day because I have come to realize that I do well when motivated - I kiss and get phone numbers, etc. However, I do want to keep up my motivation as much as I can." - James B. from Huntington, NY Derek Rake's … [Read More...]

"I really hope you can help me with my problem. A few years back, I was great at attracting and meeting women. I lived in this apartment where new chicks would come and go. I was a waiter who dated all of the waitresses and customers, and I always had women around me - all day. My confidence was … [Read More...]

"I have no trouble whatsoever admitting that I can succeed with my good looks alone, but I want to quit depending on my looks to win a girl over. After I open up, I know that I need to keep going - which is what my biggest problem is. Sometimes, I am capable of going on because of the girl's energy, … [Read More...]

"Hi Derek. I'm an 19-year-old who totally worships every single word that you say. ;) Call me Ryan. Anyway, my problem is: my game is great but I constantly feel like something is blocking my way to huge success. I have no idea if it has something to do with my tactics or my mindset, but I sometimes … [Read More...]

"How can I keep things going when in a relationship? How can I make sure we stay great after two weeks? (Also, am I trying to be too perfect here?) With so many obstacles, insecurities, test failure, and some bad luck, things seem to have changed with us." - Sean B. from North Kingstown, RI Derek … [Read More...]