Derek Rake Insider

"Recently, I got into a relationship with someone at my college and everything is great. She is my best friend now and we're escalating a lot faster than I thought possible (we're both virgins, by the way). Everything is actually so great that I'm afraid our relationship will start to get boring or … [Read More...]

"Do you have any advice for someone who only wants to get into a relationship for the long term? I have no intentions of meeting a woman to sleep with her within a week or a month. I seriously just want a serious relationship where sex doesn't come up until we know one another very well." - Douglas … [Read More...]

"I have trouble getting girls. Every time I talk to a girl, I mention that I would like to talk or see them again, but they never seem to want to. I have no idea if it's because I'm boring or what. I also know that I lack good and funny conversation skills, by the way." - Raymond C. Williamsport, … [Read More...]

"Would it be possible for me to get my ex back if her breakup line was 'We aren't on the same path.'?" - Jeremy G. from Oakland, NJ Derek Rake's Answer:- es. Just spend some time away and go back a few months later to game her the way you did the very first time. Always works. :) … [Read More...]

"Basically, I want to learn how to move from being the nice guy to being the dateable guy. I think it might be a bit too late to get this girl - heck, I'm not even sure if she's worth it - but I want to know how I can ensure a relationship next time instead of constantly hoping things will work out. … [Read More...]