Derek Rake Insider

"Recently, I got into a relationship with someone at my college and everything is great. She is my best friend now and we're escalating a lot faster than I thought possible (we're both virgins, by the way). Everything is actually so great that I'm afraid our relationship will start to get boring or … [Read More...]

"So, how come she didn't give me her phone number? I'm guessing she has a boyfriend or didn't want to give it to me because she was at work. I've had that happen to me before when I tried to pick up a girl who was catering. She said I should catch her after work. I couldn't really stay for that … [Read More...]

"How do you deal with the situation when the friends or brothers or mother of the girl you like is around? It's easy to do this in a club because there are a lot of people there, but what if the girl is walking down the street with her friends or mother, what then?" - Nathaniel S. from Milton, … [Read More...]

"My problem has two parts to it. I find it easy to be sexual with women when not in isolation and I know that it should be easier in isolation. However, seduction is more difficult to click during the necessary state in order to isolate her and seduce her after every bit of attraction is needed. My … [Read More...]

"I have noticed something clever about this woman I hooked up with once. I visited her once and she's the kind of woman who doesn't really talk about how she feels (she says what she likes, but not what she feels) and if you ask her anything, she won't talk about how she feels, either. Then I came … [Read More...]