Derek Rake Insider

"My question is one that I believe several guys will relate to. Simply put, what advice can you give to a guy who wants to start fresh? I have personally had some success in my younger high school and college days. I had several girlfriends and occasional friends with benefits, but always knew it … [Read More...]

"I find myself getting tired of games and even women. Now, don't take this the wrong way: I have no interest in switching teams. I think it just has something to do with the women that I meet, really. But what else can I do if I've lost interest in the games and if I only want to have sex with … [Read More...]

"I see her at the bar, but I meet up with some people first before going up to her. Then a guy shows up and hugs her from the back and she introduces him to me as a 'great friend'. She gives him a drink and they kiss in front of me. This goes on all night. It ended up totally screwing with my … [Read More...]

"I have no intentions of picking up men. I am just hoping my subject title stands out so you can give me some advice for my situation. My question is: I have a problem with being confident and dominant when it comes to work, so can you help me make a change here?" - Brendan J. from Sperry, … [Read More...]

"I'm taken right now but don't see myself as being great with women. My relationship right now is good but if we break up, I think I'd have problems meeting other women. Here's my story. I'm 24 and socially awkward with other people - always have been. I haven't been social - ever. It's a natural … [Read More...]