Derek Rake Insider

"I have been with my girlfriend for around four months now. As with every guy, I am starting to lose interest in her and want to find something better. I simply don't feel the way I felt with her in the beginning, but she still likes me a lot, so I want to learn how I can end things without her … [Read More...]

"Do you have any advice for someone who only wants to get into a relationship for the long term? I have no intentions of meeting a woman to sleep with her within a week or a month. I seriously just want a serious relationship where sex doesn't come up until we know one another very well." - Douglas … [Read More...]

"How can I keep things going when in a relationship? How can I make sure we stay great after two weeks? (Also, am I trying to be too perfect here?) With so many obstacles, insecurities, test failure, and some bad luck, things seem to have changed with us." - Sean B. from North Kingstown, RI Derek … [Read More...]

"Derek, before anything else, I want to say that I have average looks and can get quite a few women. However, the problem is that most of those women are online, which leads to my second problem. I know there's no trouble in getting regular girls of 6s and 7s, but I have trouble getting girls that … [Read More...]

"First of all, thanks for the great start, Derek. I have been taking in your SeductionOnSteroids product; I usually only read it once, though, since I'm busy with college. Still, I can actually approach female strangers now, no matter how scary it is sometimes. I want to learn all of this because … [Read More...]