Derek Rake Insider

"I have been with my girlfriend for around four months now. As with every guy, I am starting to lose interest in her and want to find something better. I simply don't feel the way I felt with her in the beginning, but she still likes me a lot, so I want to learn how I can end things without her … [Read More...]

"I live in another country right now and I don't speak the language here fluently. The thing is: not everyone here speaks English. I want to pick girls up, but I can't always find girls who can speak the same language as me. What can I do? I'm getting desperate and can't wait to leave this place but … [Read More...]

"I find it hard to start up conversations with girls in quiet places - whenever there's a cute girl at a quiet library, for example - and even when we're at the pool and everybody's around to listen. What's the rap when it comes to such situations? And when you're at the grocery, still getting yours … [Read More...]

"I've met a few great women that I want to consider who aren't exactly 10s, but 8s and 9s. I'm not the greatest looking guy out there, but I'm not too shabby, either. There's this one girl I particularly like. I feel connected to her on various levels. What would be a great way to mention I want to … [Read More...]

"Hey Derek, I want to share my extreme frustration here. I don't know which advice to trust and which not to anymore. A lot of the things you say makes so much sense to me, but I sometimes feel like you're just another online marketer trying to sell his product. From what I have read from you so … [Read More...]