Derek Rake Insider

"I just want some advice on some things. I met this great lady whom I have a strictly sexual relationship with - friends with benefits, if you will. However, being friends is the worst wrench through it all. She is hot but has huge problems because of how past lovers have treated her - one of … [Read More...]

"I'm quite good with openers, but sometimes, that's as far as I get. I hardly ask for phone numbers since I feel like the chance to do so never really comes out. Whenever I'm out, I'm either very cocky or very nice. None of these mindsets work. If I'm nice, girls ignore me, but if I'm cocky, they … [Read More...]

"I've met a few great women that I want to consider who aren't exactly 10s, but 8s and 9s. I'm not the greatest looking guy out there, but I'm not too shabby, either. There's this one girl I particularly like. I feel connected to her on various levels. What would be a great way to mention I want to … [Read More...]

"I've liked this chick Debbie for a while now. I was dating another girl before (we were even engaged) for more than two years, after which my best friend Benjamin began to date Debbie. They were the other couple during board games night. We also had parties where at one point my ex and I had sex … [Read More...]

"I went to a bar the other night and met a girl. I saw her from the moment she came in, but she had another guy with her. She randomly approached my table where I was sitting with some colleagues and went 'Wow, this is awkward.' I asked what she meant and she told me that she came with a friend … [Read More...]