Derek Rake Insider

"1. I could talk about this a lot, but I'll try to summarize it - I meet someone who continually shows interest in me. I sort of avoid reciprocating anything (staying as friends as I do with everybody else). She keeps showing stronger interest, and then, the minute I reciprocate this interest, she … [Read More...]

"Okay, one thing I have debated is whether to be a little mean or nice to women because I have come to notice that being mean works to a certain degree but not a lot and only on women with lower IQs unless you add some fun into it. I put my teasing skills to use once when a girl was holding my butt … [Read More...]

"I have come to notice that, when in the game and trying to work out what really works and what doesn't, I seek for reactions a lot. I mean, the only way I can find out what works is through people's reactions, after all. So, how can I get better without being reactive-seeking and at the same time … [Read More...]

"I really hope you can help me with my problem. A few years back, I was great at attracting and meeting women. I lived in this apartment where new chicks would come and go. I was a waiter who dated all of the waitresses and customers, and I always had women around me - all day. My confidence was … [Read More...]

"I am 29 years old and have only dated 17 different women because I get attached easily and end up dating each one longer. Whenever I'm single, I usually have around 6 women running after me until I date one and lose the others. I suppose my greatest frustration when it comes to women would be … [Read More...]