Derek Rake Insider

"I have approached women older than me before and they have said several things to me like 'You're young enough to be my son'; 'I have a little brother your age'; or 'You're, like, 12'. I have heard that you have a trainer my age, so I was hoping you could offer up some advice on the subject. I know … [Read More...]

"I want to mention my main objective with women: closing. I live with my mom right now (I am 21) and I date girls who also live with their mom or dad - or both - so it's difficult to find places to close. I want to fix this problem, but I can only think of hotels - and those aren't plausible … [Read More...]

"Would it be possible for me to get my ex back if her breakup line was 'We aren't on the same path.'?" - Jeremy G. from Oakland, NJ Derek Rake's Answer:- es. Just spend some time away and go back a few months later to game her the way you did the very first time. Always works. :) … [Read More...]

"Hi, a quick summary of what I'm dealing with: This girl was coming to my workplace for more than a year and throwing me crazy hints. I thought it was her way of being nice since she was hot, then I eventually asked her on a date and we hit things off. But when she started having two jobs, we … [Read More...]

"Hey, my relationship has some new developments that require me to ask something. Basically, I learned that my girl has had a bad sexual past and she said that I was being too pushy and demanding by trying to escalate things. I don't know why she waited to tell me about this. (Btw, she's a virgin.) … [Read More...]