Derek Rake Insider

"I'm quite good with openers, but sometimes, that's as far as I get. I hardly ask for phone numbers since I feel like the chance to do so never really comes out. Whenever I'm out, I'm either very cocky or very nice. None of these mindsets work. If I'm nice, girls ignore me, but if I'm cocky, they … [Read More...]

"Recently, I got into a relationship with someone at my college and everything is great. She is my best friend now and we're escalating a lot faster than I thought possible (we're both virgins, by the way). Everything is actually so great that I'm afraid our relationship will start to get boring or … [Read More...]

"My problem has two parts to it. I find it easy to be sexual with women when not in isolation and I know that it should be easier in isolation. However, seduction is more difficult to click during the necessary state in order to isolate her and seduce her after every bit of attraction is needed. My … [Read More...]

"I live in another country right now and I don't speak the language here fluently. The thing is: not everyone here speaks English. I want to pick girls up, but I can't always find girls who can speak the same language as me. What can I do? I'm getting desperate and can't wait to leave this place but … [Read More...]

"I've been dating a girl for more than a month and we've gone on several casual dates and to several parties downtown… We get along very well and laugh a lot together. I quite like her, but I somehow feel that there are several obstacles in the way of us getting physical. Around three weeks ago, I … [Read More...]