Derek Rake Insider

"I like this friend of a friend who's a model, but I don't have a car, a job or money; I live in a dinky apartment; and I'm not even studying just yet (though hopefully will be in the following semester). This is why I have trouble talking to her a lot of the time. I kind of feel like she should be … [Read More...]

"How can I keep things going when in a relationship? How can I make sure we stay great after two weeks? (Also, am I trying to be too perfect here?) With so many obstacles, insecurities, test failure, and some bad luck, things seem to have changed with us." - Sean B. from North Kingstown, RI Derek … [Read More...]

"I see her at the bar, but I meet up with some people first before going up to her. Then a guy shows up and hugs her from the back and she introduces him to me as a 'great friend'. She gives him a drink and they kiss in front of me. This goes on all night. It ended up totally screwing with my … [Read More...]

"I have trouble getting girls. Every time I talk to a girl, I mention that I would like to talk or see them again, but they never seem to want to. I have no idea if it's because I'm boring or what. I also know that I lack good and funny conversation skills, by the way." - Raymond C. Williamsport, … [Read More...]

"Hi, I have a serious problem getting over a girl. I want her back, but don't know how to go about it. What tips do you have to get an ex to go out with you again? Or is it hopeless? Should I move on and never look back? Honestly, I like this girl a lot and we only broke up because we hardly talk … [Read More...]