Derek Rake Insider

"Derek, I have definitely improved with the ladies compared to a year ago, but I still can't get laid every single time, you know? Something always seems to get in the way. So, how can I change things from one point to another from being somewhere public to being somewhere private? I currently … [Read More...]

"I've been dating a girl for more than a month and we've gone on several casual dates and to several parties downtown… We get along very well and laugh a lot together. I quite like her, but I somehow feel that there are several obstacles in the way of us getting physical. Around three weeks ago, I … [Read More...]

"I have some more questions here and I would be very appreciative if you could answer teem for me. I have attempted to keep a more dominant focus, like you suggested, but this battle has been going strictly uphill. It works for a bit, but once I trigger something, such as a bad look, or a hesitance … [Read More...]

"I find it hard to start up conversations with girls in quiet places - whenever there's a cute girl at a quiet library, for example - and even when we're at the pool and everybody's around to listen. What's the rap when it comes to such situations? And when you're at the grocery, still getting yours … [Read More...]

"Hey Derek, I want to share my extreme frustration here. I don't know which advice to trust and which not to anymore. A lot of the things you say makes so much sense to me, but I sometimes feel like you're just another online marketer trying to sell his product. From what I have read from you so … [Read More...]