Derek Rake Insider

"After a marriage of 42 years, my wife sleeps in another bedroom. It has been a year since then and we haven't had sex throughout that time. What can I do? I'm incredibly horny!" - John G. from Gaithersburg, MD Derek Rake's Answer:- think I'd go nuts after 42 years in a marriage. I have dated … [Read More...]

"Basically, I want to learn how to move from being the nice guy to being the dateable guy. I think it might be a bit too late to get this girl - heck, I'm not even sure if she's worth it - but I want to know how I can ensure a relationship next time instead of constantly hoping things will work out. … [Read More...]

"I have no intentions of picking up men. I am just hoping my subject title stands out so you can give me some advice for my situation. My question is: I have a problem with being confident and dominant when it comes to work, so can you help me make a change here?" - Brendan J. from Sperry, … [Read More...]

"I've been playing the nice guy card all year and would like you to elaborate some things for me, as a kind of Christmas gift. What are your thoughts on attainability? I know this is old and you probably don't teach it anymore, but I don't have any other products, so it's what I use. However, I … [Read More...]

"I see her at the bar, but I meet up with some people first before going up to her. Then a guy shows up and hugs her from the back and she introduces him to me as a 'great friend'. She gives him a drink and they kiss in front of me. This goes on all night. It ended up totally screwing with my … [Read More...]