Derek Rake Insider

"Hi Derek, first of all, I want to thank you for this chance to share what's in my heart and mind. My question is: how can I win my ex-girlfriend back? I was dumped two weeks ago and we had only been together for two months." - Nicholas O. from Ocala, FL Derek Rake's Answer:- ne that brings all … [Read More...]

"I've actually been reading your stuff for quite some time now and they truly make a ton of sense to me. So, firstly, I want to thank you for all of it. I'm Damon, 24 years old. I'm not hideous or overweight, but I have come to find that I lack something in the game overall. I tend to say or think … [Read More...]

"How can I keep things going when in a relationship? How can I make sure we stay great after two weeks? (Also, am I trying to be too perfect here?) With so many obstacles, insecurities, test failure, and some bad luck, things seem to have changed with us." - Sean B. from North Kingstown, RI Derek … [Read More...]

"I still face problems when it comes to women. I sometimes meet one with whom I connect with really well and then, the next time we meet, the connection is suddenly gone. Why are my results so inconsistent?" - Jesse G. from Chicago, IL Derek Rake's Answer:- here are two reasons why you are more … [Read More...]

"I find it hard to start up conversations with girls in quiet places - whenever there's a cute girl at a quiet library, for example - and even when we're at the pool and everybody's around to listen. What's the rap when it comes to such situations? And when you're at the grocery, still getting yours … [Read More...]