Derek Rake Insider

"How come, whenever I meet a hot girl, I lose interest in her very quickly and the entire atmosphere suddenly gets boring - most of the time, anyway? We might have a good time for a few days, but then all of the joy and all of the emotions just disappear." - Jim E. from Somerville, NJ Derek … [Read More...]

"Okay, one thing I have debated is whether to be a little mean or nice to women because I have come to notice that being mean works to a certain degree but not a lot and only on women with lower IQs unless you add some fun into it. I put my teasing skills to use once when a girl was holding my butt … [Read More...]

"I have come to notice that, when in the game and trying to work out what really works and what doesn't, I seek for reactions a lot. I mean, the only way I can find out what works is through people's reactions, after all. So, how can I get better without being reactive-seeking and at the same time … [Read More...]

"I have no intentions of picking up men. I am just hoping my subject title stands out so you can give me some advice for my situation. My question is: I have a problem with being confident and dominant when it comes to work, so can you help me make a change here?" - Brendan J. from Sperry, … [Read More...]

"I just want some advice on some things. I met this great lady whom I have a strictly sexual relationship with - friends with benefits, if you will. However, being friends is the worst wrench through it all. She is hot but has huge problems because of how past lovers have treated her - one of … [Read More...]