“What would be the greatest focus when it comes to walking down the street, so I can talk to women automatically? I have tried the focus on her contribution in my life and I felt very unreactive and solid because of it and a little somber, without any motivation to start up conversations. Does this mean anything? And is there any better focus to hold onto?
I already read through SeductionOnSteroids yesterday, by the way, and got approach invitations today from attractive girls, which has never happened to me before (seriously) after changing to the focus on ‘no one cares or remembers what I do’. Since nothing seemed very important, I got a bit of a natural swagger going and women began to look at me in a different manner.” – Dalton S. from Chandler, AZ
Derek Rake’s Answer:-
I am happy to hear you got approach invitations. I honestly think that’s a bit technical, though, and would like to think of the whole thing as basic and easy flirting with one another. It really helps to keep things playful and light as a whole, as they should be.
The greatest focus on meeting girls on the streets would be “I wonder why she’s unique?” since you will start thinking actively. You want to find out more about her and you will most likely approach her to ask questions and find out why she is unique..
The “I wonder what her contribution to my life could be” mindset is simply amazing, but you need to put it to use after you’ve begun talking already because you want to shape her with it and change her into a better person for you to be with.
However, as you said, it isn’t exactly the greatest mindset out there to approach women in an active manner. Try “I wonder why she’s unique” instead. You will love it. 🙂