“I have no trouble talking to girls, but I’m simply not sexual enough most of the time, so they end up seeing me as nothing more than just a friend. I have tried using sexual innuendo, but to no avail.
Also, do you have any tips on conveying dominant body language in a party or club environment? Should I maybe lead her to certain places, sit her down properly, place my hand on her back? I just really need to show some sexuality or dominance somehow.” – Charles G. from Maidstone, ON
Derek Rake’s Answer:-
Let us concentrate on dominance. If you want to portray dominant body language, you have to lead. All of the things you have mentioned above are great.
Seriously, if you concentrate on thinking in a dominant manner, your actions will be dominant, too. So, try this focus out instead of looking for new tactics:
“I have self control. I can decide things on my own and decide things for other people. I am capable of making anybody feel happy and safe.”
Don’t just think it, though. Make sure you really feel this way. This might take several tries, but after you master this focus, you will always have dominant body language whatever you do.