“Alright, I have a real problem. My pecker is only 5 inches long and 4 inches wide. I heard that this is an average size, but if this is the case, then how come some women – ex-girlfriends and friends, that is – tell me it’s too small?

The thing is, I had a girlfriend before who was a playboy model and she loved it, but I’m thinking that might only be because I was taking Cialis to get pumped up. And my current girlfriend says it looks bigger than before, as well, but I haven’t told her about the Cialis. Now, my real problem is that I absolutely abhor Cialis because I get crazy headaches when I take it and it’s so expensive.” – Brian M. from Murphysboro, IL

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

This is usually where the joke starts, but to be honest, you’re alright. 5+ inches really is the norm.

So, what you should concentrate on instead is this:

1. Know that your size is fine. Trust me. I don’t pack heat down below and my best friend keeps bragging about how he lacks in the size department, too.

2. Your exes and friends suck – for telling you such lies, that is. Seriously, those girls were just bitter. If they really cared about you, they would never say that.

And dude, if you are getting headaches from those pills, just stop taking them! They aren’t worth it.

Again, you do not have any size problems, so stop worrying about it. Instead, have a ton of fun tonight and stop communicating with those loser exes of yours while you’re at it.

“I have no trouble talking to girls, but I’m simply not sexual enough most of the time, so they end up seeing me as nothing more than just a friend. I have tried using sexual innuendo, but to no avail.

Also, do you have any tips on conveying dominant body language in a party or club environment? Should I maybe lead her to certain places, sit her down properly, place my hand on her back? I just really need to show some sexuality or dominance somehow.” – Charles G. from Maidstone, ON

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

Let us concentrate on dominance. If you want to portray dominant body language, you have to lead. All of the things you have mentioned above are great.

Seriously, if you concentrate on thinking in a dominant manner, your actions will be dominant, too. So, try this focus out instead of looking for new tactics:

“I have self control. I can decide things on my own and decide things for other people. I am capable of making anybody feel happy and safe.”

Don’t just think it, though. Make sure you really feel this way. This might take several tries, but after you master this focus, you will always have dominant body language whatever you do.

“Basically, I want to learn how to move from being the nice guy to being the dateable guy. I think it might be a bit too late to get this girl – heck, I’m not even sure if she’s worth it – but I want to know how I can ensure a relationship next time instead of constantly hoping things will work out. I’m so sick of being Mr. Nice Guy. I want a gorgeous girlfriend, darn it!” – Max G. from Cannon Greek, QLD

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

Girls may love nice guys, but they simply don’t get TURNED ON by them. What you need to do is learn how to turn women on by touching her and by being dominant. Here are the fast and dirty basics:

1. You need more touching. If you are seen as Mr. Nice Guy, then you probably aren’t doing enough of this. Simply put, you need to let your hands do the talking. Now, this doesn’t mean you need to make random gestures here and there; this means you have to touch her sides and her arms with your hands. This will help you a lot.

2. Be dominant. Lead. Make decisions. The type of guys that women like are the semi-dangerous ones who can take charge of any situation. So, you might want to change your personality to match that description. Avoid saying “maybe” and stick to a straightforward “no” or “yes”. Also, never force women to make any of your decisions on dates. Tell them where to go and why they would love it there.

If you follow these two basic things, you will be a step farther away from the “friend zone”.

“I know this girl quite well and we are always together – in a group, anyway – at least twice a week. As cliche as this sounds, I like her a lot and want to find out if she likes me, too. The thing is: I have no idea how to find out if she does. I asked her if she was free for a coffee once and her response was ‘probably not’.

This was a few months ago and now, I have no idea how to go about it. Should I give up or are there other things out there that I can try in order to succeed with her?” – Joseph I. from Southfield, MI

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

Watch what she does as opposed to what she says.

Touching you means she likes you. Lingering means she likes you. Defending you from other men that are around means she might like you. Those are examples of how you should judge her.

But what you should truly concentrate on is how much touching there is in your relationship. If you never touch her, she will never see you as a boyfriend; this is probably why she gave you the ‘probably not’ response. Just be more aggressive overall and touch her in a more sexual manner.

“First of all, thanks for the great start, Derek. I have been taking in your SeductionOnSteroids product; I usually only read it once, though, since I’m busy with college. Still, I can actually approach female strangers now, no matter how scary it is sometimes. I want to learn all of this because your book helped me turn my entire life around, but I do want to be better than you. (No offense, but it is possible, right?)” – James C. from West Palm Beach, FL

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

The truth is, I am great with women because of my personal cold hard experiences. When I was still learning all of this, I quit working and spent my time meeting women eight hours a day – if not more.

So now, I have the job of helping you do the same thing. I literally speak, write and talk about dating and sex for twelve hours every day.

If you want to know the real secret on how to get better with the ladies, here it is: regardless of how much or how little you have learned about women since the day you were born, you can keep getting better and better if you devote your time to meeting more and more women.

Well, SeductionOnSteroids™ along with my other programs can speed up that particular process and turn you into a real master with women in no time. Here’s all my stuff on one page:

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I hope to hear more success stories from you.

“I still face problems when it comes to women. I sometimes meet one with whom I connect with really well and then, the next time we meet, the connection is suddenly gone. Why are my results so inconsistent?” – Jesse G. from Chicago, IL

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

There are two reasons why you are more successful when you are taken:

1. Thanks to biology, women prefer the men that the competition likes.

2. Whenever you have a girlfriend, you tend to portray dominance while having outstanding body language because you don’t feel the need to impress other women nor do you have the innate goal to talk to one.

So, to improve your overall results tonight, set a different goal for a change. Instead of aiming to sleep with a woman, aim to simply talk to one.

Also, relax more. This will help you give off better body language, too.

“So, if we touch each other, but don’t kiss or have sex yet, would that still be considered the ‘friend zone’?’ – Bobby M. from New Rome, OH

Derek Rake’s Answer:-

Well, you are basically stuck in the “friend zone” if you aren’t getting anywhere with a girl at all. This usually isn’t that big of a deal, but if the girl has been in your life for several years now and you still haven’t gotten anywhere with her, then you definitely need to concentrate on sexual tension and touch her more.