“How do you deal with the situation when the friends or brothers or mother of the girl you like is around? It’s easy to do this in a club because there are a lot of people there, but what if the girl is walking down the street with her friends or mother, what then?” – Nathaniel S. from Milton, BE
Derek Rake’s Answer:-
Earlier, I already gave a guy advice on how to deal with moms, so I’ll tell you a bit about dealing with family or friends. Basically, everybody needs to like you or respect you, at least, not to interfere whenever you want to be alone with your girl.
The easiest way to get this done would be to talk to everybody. Tell everybody your stories and spend the initial several minutes talking to the whole group as if they were a single person.
After things are cool with her brothers and family, you can begin paying more attention to the girl, in particular. Give yourself several minutes to talk to the entire group and personally pay more attention to her.
Then, ask if you can just borrow her for a while and grab her hand politely to show her something. Remain close to the whole group, though, so they aren’t worried about her being safe but get away far enough to talk in private. Then, escalate things physically and get her phone number as usual.
Provided you are fun and friendly to everybody else, only in rare occasions will the family stop you from taking her away. They love her, after all, and hope for her happiness with a nice guy.
So, prove to them that you are fun, cool and nice and they will like you so much, they won’t mind if you talk to her for a bit. Those are my rules, in general, anyway.