“Hi Derek, first of all, I want to thank you for this chance to share what’s in my heart and mind. My question is: how can I win my ex-girlfriend back? I was dumped two weeks ago and we had only been together for two months.” – Nicholas O. from Ocala, FL
Derek Rake’s Answer:-
One that brings all of the “get your ex back” advice together that I have been giving out as of late: Whenever You Invest More Time In Her Compared To What She Does For You, You Will Lose Her Forever!
Emotion and love have a purpose when it comes to meeting women – a huge one, for that matter. Love is probably the most beautiful thing that you can do for a woman and is very important in any man’s future.
However, you seem to be positive that she is perfect for you and it has only been two months. Two Months! Why, it takes even longer than that to get a custom car painted and sent to a Honda dealer. (And those guys are fast.)
How do you expect to find out if a person is right for you that quickly? The answer is that you can’t. What you’re experiencing is lust as opposed to love. You want her emotionally and physically, but you aren’t in love.
You feel invested in her because of the ton of compliance that you’ve been giving her. But it’s not love. Here is the dirty, quick secret for you here: give her some space! Cut contact. Be completely brutal and pull yourself away from this hurtful situation.
Right now, all you are doing is hurting yourself when you’ve already taken a shot to the arm. Cut contact. Make her run after you for a bit. When she runs back, attract her the way you would any new woman in your life. But this time, make use of the tactics that I have taught and do not give your dominance up too fast, either.
Sorry if this was brutal, but it was for your own good. No matter how much you might hate me now, you’ll thank me later on. I promise. π