“How can I keep things going when in a relationship? How can I make sure we stay great after two weeks? (Also, am I trying to be too perfect here?) With so many obstacles, insecurities, test failure, and some bad luck, things seem to have changed with us.” – Sean B. from North Kingstown, RI
Derek Rake’s Answer:-
To begin with, here is some real world advice: relax. You worry too much. If you worry so much, you’ll think far too much, which will, in turn, make you lose interest in her. Because of this, she will feel like you are no longer into your relationship the way she is and will make her not want to invest as much in it and in your sex life anymore.
To be honest, every sign points to a near-future breakup. So, if you wish to save this relationship, engage her the way you did when you first met. A ton of excitement. A ton of sexual tension. Physical escalation. Great sex. Have passion. Have dominance. Let her see the man she so longed to be with and you will do well.
However, if you constantly push her away, she will leave in no time at all. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you aren’t a great boyfriend or that you suck at relationships, though. It simply means that you two have been thinking far too much and you need to act now. Both of you.
Take the lead by taking that first step, so she can see how passionate you are and so she can replicate that passion. In the end, you may get to save what you have, after all. 🙂