“Hi, a quick summary of what I’m dealing with: This girl was coming to my workplace for more than a year and throwing me crazy hints. I thought it was her way of being nice since she was hot, then I eventually asked her on a date and we hit things off. But when she started having two jobs, we started to stress out, too.
That’s when we started waiting for things to calm down and a crazy ex appeared out of nowhere. She ended things with him half a year before we met and she changed her phone number three times because he kept finding it somewhere. The third time, I didn’t get her number until two weeks afterwards. Then I learned this ex of hers threatened to end of her life if she ended things with him and the reason why I hadn’t heard from her for two weeks was because they had gotten back together. Now, she has filed a restraining order against him and she told me everything when we met up. Still, she says she has tons of emotional healing to go through before we can be together again. She wants to stay in touch in case the time ever gets right. What am I supposed to do? I have no idea why she got back in touch to meet up just to tell me she doesn’t want to go out with me at the moment!” – Edgar W. from Werneth, VIC
Derek Rake’s Answer:-
That is one troubled child you’ve got there. I think you should use her past and learn from it and keep her away from your overall dating life right now.
She will bring you trouble, and if you already have problems with her right now – before even having sex with her – just think about what will happen if you start a real relationship.
Girls like this are best left alone, so you can lead a much happier life. Trust me: I have gone through the same thing – the hassle, drama and mind games – before. The rewards simply aren’t worth the risks.